Gastric squeeze, stress before the meeting, trying to look and behave as best as possible.

Continuous and insistent thoughts about the other person, wondering what they are doing at the moment. Desire and strong emotions. Do you remember those beginnings of the relationship? When you were in love and you didn’t think rationally, you just followed your heart? It was so beautiful, you thought they were the “only” person.

And suddenly, BOOM…

The bubble burst and you went back to the everyday occurrences and the neutrality in your emotions. But why did this happen? Is it because of the stability of the relationship? Or is it because of the lack of factors that were not lacking in your life before?

It is often said that it is during the period of infatuation, when a person sees through pink glasses in the superlatives themselves, and then, after a while, this feeling passes and becomes extinguished. Then it is said that love comes. This mature, deep, humble and conservative love, but are you sure? When I was younger I watched a lot of romantic comedies that persuaded the audience that the real feeling of love doesn’t fade away. This picture is very different from reality. In our lives we often encounter monotony and a sense of boredom in relationships. Lack of variety and novelty causes the above mentioned factors, so it is worth to take care of and nurture your partnership. And sex? Important or unimportant? What do you think? Or does sex affect a relationship?

Here is the correct answer:

Sex is an essential element that brings partners together. It causes and sustains desire and helps to discharge negative emotions. Sex is intimacy and closeness and its absence suppresses emotions to such an extent that our relationship becomes mediocre and we move away from each other perhaps without knowing why. These are not my private thoughts. Let me now quote a very interesting book, which I received as a gift, and the results of the analyses in it surprised me and made me aware of the rightness of my previous reflections.

“In Google we will find sixteen times more complaints about a spouse who does not want to have sex with us than about a spouse who does not want to talk to us, and five and a half times more complaints about an unmarried partner refusing to have sex with us than about a partner not answering our texts.”

Why do you think people complain so often about a lack of sex?

Maybe they just need it more than they think.

We all need it and we should take care of our bed life because, as I wrote earlier, it is the most unifying factor in all relationships.

Let’s think about it and make love more.